146 – Herbal Support for Insomnia: My Clinical Approach to Sleep

This episode explores herbal support for insomnia and sleep challenges. Nicole introduces a framework that includes daytime nervous system support, support for nutritional and physiological drivers of poor sleep, reducing inflammation and the roles of sedative herbs.

It is first in a series about herbal support for sleep.

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Welcome to the Frontline Herbalism Podcast with your host Nicole Rose from the

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Let's get started.

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Hello. Welcome back to the Frontline Herbalism Podcast.

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I am doing okay.

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I ironically didn't record this podcast when I

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wanted to on Tuesday because on Monday night I'd had terrible night's sleep and that was

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because I suspected that I got gluten.

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Anyone with a gluten intolerance will understand this.

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Some people will have gluten and then they'll just need to like sleep for a week.

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For me it will like just cause basically insomnia where I just like really struggle to

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sleep because I feel so nauseous and inflamed.

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So that was rubbish.

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So Tuesday I.

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Yeah, just.

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Yeah, I think my nausea is getting worse

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around ovulation and it's something I'm like looking into.

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I've actually booked in to see the doctor to just get some like blood tests done next week.

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So that's good.

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But yeah, pregnancy is wild.

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As is perimenopause.

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Who knows?

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I'm 38, maybe I'm going in that direction, I don't know.

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But I know the things that I want to ******** out.

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So I just, yeah, getting that done soon.

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But I'm sorry I haven't recorded a episode

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sooner but I am now starting a series all about herbal support for sleep.

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So yeah, we're going to be diving into kind of like different causes of insomnia and also

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kind of like my approaches to it when I work with someone one to one.

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Or when people kind of like ask for advice and stuff around it.

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And it's probably a bit more like complex and like nuanced than maybe other people's

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approaches, which is like, oh, just take this herb that's a sedative and it will help you

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sleep.

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Or, you know, you go to the doctor and they just like whack you a sleeping tablet, which,

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you know, can be life changing for lots of people, but it's not always getting to the

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kind of causes of what might be causing poor sleep.

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So I'm gonna stop recording and record that now and I'm gonna hopefully be coming back to

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you with a whole series about this stuff.

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So we're going to be looking at the kind of

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like nuances of sedative herbs.

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We're going to be looking at the connections between inflammation and sleep, some of the

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nutritional deficiencies that contribute to poor sleep and also contribute to things like

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nightmares.

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And then we're also going to be looking at

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kind of like daytime nervous system support to how, you know how to support yourself through

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the daytime to get a kind of optimal night's sleep.

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If you are someone that sleeps in the night, maybe you are someone doing like shift work

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and stuff like that.

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So it might not be appropriate, but either way

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I'm hoping you're sleeping at some point in the day or night.

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And yeah, this kind of podcast series is all about supporting you around that.

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So again, shameless plug, please cheque out the PTSD course.

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I'll put the link in the show notes and yeah, thank you for listening.

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Hello.

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All right,

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so herbal support for insomnia.

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I just want to start by saying it's not just like,

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for like pure insomniacs of, oh my God, I haven't slept for like five days.

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It's for like sleep challenges in general.

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And there is a whole spectrum of those.

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So it's one of the main things people come to me for support around.

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And I do think insomnia is a kind of of spectrum, but it is something that I kind of

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take the same approach, like wherever we are, if that makes sense.

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So people come to you wanting a sedative, but my first question is always like, why are they

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not sleeping? Or why are they not sleeping well?

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So there's kind of like different presentations, right?

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So it might be they're just kind of like difficulty in falling asleep.

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So someone might feel really, really exhausted, feel really, really tired,

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have those sleep cues, but they' just not kind of like dropping into that kind of deeper

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sleep or any sort of level of sleep.

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Other people, it might be that they can get to sleep, but they're just waking up frequently,

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or they're waking up once in the night, but it's like significant and disturbing enough

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that they then can't get back to sleep.

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Or it takes hours to get back to sleep.

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You know, especially that kind of 3, 4am kind

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of time.

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It might be that someone is like getting a few hours, but they're like waking up very early

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in the morning.

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So they might be waking up like 4, 5, 8am or

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something.

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And that's just kind of like, yeah, not enough sleep for that particular person.

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It might be that people are getting to sleep okay, maybe they wake up in the night and they

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are able to get back to sleep, but their sleep is so light and they're so easily disturbed

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that they're not getting that kind of like deeper level of like restorative sleep.

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And this is super, super, super common when there's like a kind of hyper vigilance

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challenge from like often from a traumatic experience around sleep.

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And I guess I should give a content warning.

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I don't go into like loads of like specific triggers for things.

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I like this episode's gonna be like a real umbrella episode, but I guess I will maybe

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like gently mention the odd thing that could be affecting someone's sleep.

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And yeah, I guess to just kind of like give that warning, but it's not, you know, it's not

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the main focus of the episode by any means.

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Alternatively, someone might be sleeping enough hours or, you know, a lot of hours, but

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they're still waking up feeling really, really unrefreshed.

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This can definitely be the case,

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you know, where someone's got like sleep apnea or something, which I'm going to talk about.

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But anyway, so like insomnia isn't like a kind of generic category.

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Like sleep challenges can be a real spectrum and they can also change.

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Right? It might be one part of your menstrual cycle.

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You are,

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you know, waking up loads or like struggling to get to sleep.

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And the other one, you're sleep loads but you're not waking up feeling refreshed.

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Like there's just,

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you know, so much going on in the body.

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Bodies are complicated, health is complicated,

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Herbs are complicated.

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Ah, no, I'm just joking.

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I mean they are complicated, but I mean we're

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going to work through it together.

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And this is why frameworks and structures are

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really helpful for the brain.

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And this is something that I talk about in the herbalism and PTSD course in terms of like

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structured approaches.

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I actually sent a newsletter out this morning

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about how, yeah, how to choose an Irvine, like how to choose a herb to work with.

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Um,

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and again the sort of structured questions that I work through.

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So if someone is experiencing kind of a sleep challenge, I will always ask like when did it

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start? And for some people that's like quite a simple

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clear answer of like it started after this experience or in my final year of uni or when

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I left home or you know,

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after a sexual assault or something.

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Like there is often a kind of like specific

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trigger event or there's just kind of a period of chronic stress where many things have

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happened and the body's just kind of, yeah changed in terms of circumstance, you know, or

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for example someone's had a baby and yeah,

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they are getting more kind of environmental like sleep disturbances.

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So yeah, finding out what kind of when things started, if there are potential causes in that

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way is really helpful.

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Finding out if it is a problem with falling asleep or if it's more of a. Like you can get

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to sleep but the staying asleep is a challenge.

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What time is someone waking? Can tell us a lot.

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So this is again probably more in depth than I want to go in this like umbrella episode.

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But we have these like circadian rhythms, right.

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These like natural cycles of energy and everyone's are a little bit different and for

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some people they will just feel better if they go to sleep at 1:00 clock in the morning and

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sleep in later.

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And then these people's really struggle with like capitalist life of having to get up at 7

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for work or school or whatever.

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And other people, like I'm a kind of real.

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Like there's a guy who studied sleep science and I talk about this a little bit in the

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course, I think I do.

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But he's got different phenotypes of like

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you're a lion so you wake up really early in the morning and.

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But you run out of energy.

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So like evening activities are really hard for

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you.

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And that is 100% me.

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I've always struggled with socialising in the evening, but I love waking up early.

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It's like my prime high energy time.

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Other people,

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I think they're called bears, will like be okay getting up an average time and will have

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like steady time through the day, but they're not very happy with a super early start.

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I think it's wolves that are like more like evening kind of like night owls.

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So they'll like to kind of go to bed late, sleep in late and will have more energy in the

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evening.

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And then I think he's got one called dolphins, which is like if you are just one of those

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people that are like kind of quite insomniacy, so you just can somehow like a superhuman run

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on very little sleep compared to other people.

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For example, people that might have like, you know, bipolar or things like this where

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they're just kind of like.

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Yeah, much, much more like low sleep needs as people.

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Anyway, that was such a side tangent, but it is kind of relevant.

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But what I'm saying is like you want to know your baseline pattern and go on that person's

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pattern of like it has changed for them, if that makes sense.

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So what time are they waking up?

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So we kind of have this like cortisol time where cortisol, the stress hormone will wake

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us up at certain times.

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Sometimes if you're really, really stressed,

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you might be woken up like 45 minutes after you've fallen asleep.

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Other times it might be that you sort of wake up in the middle of the night, kind of like

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3am so for example, you've gone to bed about 11, you might wake up about 3.

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For me, if I.

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I tend to fall asleep at like 8, 9 o' clock after my baby falls asleep.

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And then if I have a very high cortisol day, I'll be waking up around like 1:30.

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And that's my kind of cortisol hour, if that makes.

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But everyone's quite different and interesting in traditional Chinese medicine they have like

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a kind of body clock that they associate with different organs.

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So I think like between 1 and 3 is like the liver hours, for example, when the liver is

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like processing things like stress hormones.

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So that's really useful.

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And again, well, useful but very interesting

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side tangent.

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So yeah, finding out what someone's baseline

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is is really important.

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And that kind of waking pattern or patterns asking kind of what's happening in their body

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while they try to sleep.

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Like, is it that they have lots of racing

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thoughts?

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For example, is it that they feel nauseous?

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Is it that they're in pain? Like, what else is going on that is kind of

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potentially interacting with their sleep and yeah.

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Are they feeling hungry? You know, like there's so many different

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things which again, I'm trying to stay like,

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like bird's eye view here.

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But there are so many things that can affect

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that kind of.

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Yeah,

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kind of sleep window critical time.

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And finally, which the thing I think really isn't given enough due diligence is like what

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is happening during the daytime? Like are they having a lot of like Caffeine or

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stimulants, like, what are their stress levels during the day?

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Like, this is literally one of the main areas of kind of intervention we have.

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You know, there's like this huge focus on like sleep hygiene and don't do this and don't do

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that and blah, blah, blah.

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But actually it's like, what is going on in that person's nervous system through the day?

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And that's always pretty much my kind of like first question.

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And finally, like, yeah, what are their kind of opportunities to sleep?

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Like I mentioned, like shift work and in the herbalism PTSD course I have in the sleep

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lesson, I talk about ******* capitalism and how it affects sleep, right?

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Like how it affects what time a carer can go to bed or what time someone has to get up for

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a night shift.

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You know, like, my mum,

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bless her, like, eventually became like a mental health nurse.

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So she was doing like shift work all the time.

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So as kids we were getting like woken up,

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dragged to the neighbour's house at like 5am in the morning to sit there, watch cartoons

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till they woke up, like, you know,

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and she was also having to do like night shifts or, you know, work in the night.

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And I think maybe the Health Surface Service, National Health Service, is getting a little

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bit awareness now about shift work, but it's still something that affects millions and

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millions and millions of people and how long they're expected to work for and how hard it

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is for the body to adapt to like a constant changing routine.

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So, yeah, so I think that daytime stuff's really important and yeah, just kind of having

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that zoom out, like bigger picture.

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Okay. So I will always be looking at a few things.

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I'm.

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I've tried to break it down into four and I've

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got different podcast episodes coming up with these where I'm going to go into detail.

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So I don't want to go into too much detail now, but just to give you like a big over,

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like this broad overview.

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So when I am approaching insomnia or sleep

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challenges,

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my first point of call is always kind of like daytime nervous system support.

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So if someone is highly activated in the daytime, for example, a lot of anxiety, being

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in fight or flight, a lot panic attacks,

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like high energy, high stress cycles that is gonna trigger this high cortisol, which then

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will affect the sleep and kind of is.

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I don't want to say it's like very difficult

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for herbs to address that because it's not.

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But I mean, obviously, like,

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let's bring in all the ******* lifestyle changes available to Us, right.

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That can reduce stress.

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And I know that's really hard, but I'm just

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like naming that that herbs can only go so far compared to like the stress levels in

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someone's life.

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But looking at daytime nervous system support, so looking at our relaxant nervines, which

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maybe aren't sedative enough to knock someone out but are enough to like reduce that level

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of activation in the nervous system.

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So herbs like chamomile and lemon balm and hawthorn berry and flowers and rose,

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like I've got a whole module all about relaxant nervines.

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But these herbs can basically like take the edge off.

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And I think if we can like prevent our anxiety from escalating so much that we hit that

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really kind of extreme I'm screaming fight or flight level of tension, then we're less

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likely to have that kind of nighttime waking cortisol spike.

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So I think herbs, you know, like mother war and stuff that can help us prevent a panic

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attack from like fully escalating like that will have a knock on effect into the daytime,

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if that makes sense.

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Also working with herbs in the daytime for, you know, in my last series I've been talking

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all about like depletion and fatigue.

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But if we can address that stuff, if someone

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has more energy in the daytime they will burn that energy and they will feel more tired at

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night.

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Like there's nothing worse for people I'm supporting with chronic fatigue syndrome than

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they don't have the energy to do like huge physical exertion because they feel like

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knocked by a bus like every moment of the day.

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So then when it gets to like sleep time,

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ironically they're not tired enough to sleep well physically.

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Does that make sense? And it creates this horrific cycle for people

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where yeah, they haven't been able to like kind of, yeah.

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Get to that point where they're tired enough.

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And I'm really learning about this stuff.

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Having a, having a toddler of like,

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you know, he has to have enough kind of parasympathetic downtime in the day to sleep

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well.

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But he also has to have enough stimulation,

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enough physical activity, like going to the park,

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doing stuff at nursery, like running around like the field, like literally he needs to

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kind of be worn out but not in a like I'm horrifyingly high cortisol way.

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Does that make sense?

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And I think people take kids to full time nursery, like no judgement.

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I understand like Lee's, you know, in their part time but when they have that like stress

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response it will often lead to bad Sleep even though they're ******* exhausted.

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Do you know what I mean? So it's a balance between like, nourishing

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parasympathetic kind of rest and digest time, as well as enough kind of energy usage through

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the day.

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So, anyway, so the daytime stuff's really, really important.

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People getting enough nutrition, enough nourishment,

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all of this stuff.

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I will talk about this in the next episode, I

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think.

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But yeah, again,

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I think it's just mostly trying to reduce that activation as much as possible.

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Okay. The second big layer are the kind of nutritional and like, physiological drivers.

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So it's not just the stress response.

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It's also, you know, there are like several

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deficiencies that really, really, really contribute to insomnia, like vitamin D

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especially.

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So it's like when I start working with someone, I'll obviously look at their diet,

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look at their digest suggestions, see how likely they are to be absorbing certain

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nutrients.

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And if we can get blood tests done for free

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from the doctor to rule out certain things, then that's obviously wonderful.

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But,

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yeah, so,

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you know, like,

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nutritional deficiencies can be a big thing, but also just like inadequate nutrition in

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terms of, like, the body having its needs met physiologically, especially in terms of like

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healthy fats,

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enough carbohydrates, enough protein.

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You know, this stuff's really critical.

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Also, the timing of when we eat can really affect our sleep.

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Like, if people are eating too late at night or too close to bedtime, they might feel kind

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of full and satiated so that they can sleep.

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But actually it's making the body work a lot in the night, if that makes sense.

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So timing food stuff's kind of interesting and critical of when you're having your sort of.

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Like, for me, I have my main meal at lunchtime and then I have a smaller meal around like

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five o'.

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Clock.

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And then I go to sleep, like I said about nine.

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So. And that's like mostly adaptation to toddler life.

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But I feel like pre baby, I also had that pattern, like, I'm ******* hungry by like 11

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o'.

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Clock.

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Do you know what I mean?

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So anyway.

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But I know everyone is different.

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But again,

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nutrition is really important and not having enough food can be a real ******* sneaky

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culprit of insomnia.

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Like, I remember being in prison and just

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being so ******* hungry that I'd have to like, lie on my front.

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And that was like the only way I could get to sleep.

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And it was just so hard to sleep sometimes because of the hunger that like,

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yeah, I kind of notice it now.

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Like, if I skip a meal or like,

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yeah, don't quite put the energy into cooking something proper.

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I'll just kind of notice it into the evening and into the night.

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Does that make sense?

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Okay,

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like, third big area that I'll do a podcast episode on is, like, inflammation.

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So, like inflammatory processes, like where our kind of immune system or other systems

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are, like, activated, can,

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you know,

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pretty profoundly disrupt sleep.

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So, for example, say you've got like a cold or

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flu or something.

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Okay, maybe when you have a fever, you can be

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knocked out and that can actually be quite refreshing.

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But obviously you still get that, like, fevery dream discomfort.

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But I mean, more sort of like general inflammation.

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Like, how much harder it is to sleep when you've got bad pain.

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You know, like my son, bless him, when he broke his arm, like in August, falling off the

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slide, it's like he just couldn't sleep because he was in so much pain.

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Like, the first week, like, it was horrendous.

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Like he just couldn't get comfortable.

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Obviously I was giving him pain relief, but I just mean, like, when there's like, an

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inflammatory process in the body that will be, like,

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interacting with our sleep much more than we realise.

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Pain is a really big one.

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Like people waking up with period pain or

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uterine pain, endometriosis, pain, back pain, like, all of these kind of, like, pain factors

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are also, like, a big factor of sleep.

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And it's such a tragedy because when you are in pain, you do need quality, quality sleep

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for those tissues to kind of, like, have a shot at repairing themselves.

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So, anyway, I'm gonna record a whole episode about that.

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Okay, so once I've kind of, like, worked with someone very holistically,

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like, in terms of looking at these bigger things, like, you know, in the inflammation

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bit, I'm going to talk about digestion,

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but we'll then really start thinking about, like, which sedative herbs could be useful.

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And there is a lot of nuance here, especially where there is, like, a trauma context,

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because I talk about this in the PTSD course.

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But, like, being sedated can be really triggering for people.

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Like a. Especially if someone has been through a trauma with kind of sedation.

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I don't want to name the things, but I'm sure you can imagine, you know, and I don't.

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Sorry to name them, but I don't just mean, like, sexual assault or things when you've

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been, like, drunk or on drugs.

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Like, also things like anaesthesia, right?

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Like, can be very traumatic for the body.

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So there's a whole spectrum here for Some people lives have been so stressful that

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actually even that like parasympathetic like rested response can feel wildly unfamiliar and

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unfamiliar things are like threatening to the nervous system.

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So yeah, it's kind of like a small and slow like approach.

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Also with sedative herbs,

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like there's just so much nuance to them in terms of how sedating they are.

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Like are they just, are you just going in too hard with something too quickly?

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If that makes sense when you know you haven't addressed all these other things.

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But they can be really, really useful.

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And I think they can be very powerful at like

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setting this kind of like pattern.

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And some people who've had long term sleep issues, like sleep can become just such a big

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source of stress, such a threat that like it's just stressful managing it.

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Especially if they've kind of been going down the like sleep hygiene route, which is like

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quite controlled of like don't use your phone,

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blah blah, blah, blah blah.

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And it's like more of a focus on all of these

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things and then feeling bad if you don't do them.

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Like rather than like okay, what actually makes you feel safe and what actually makes

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you feel nourished.

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And I talk about this in the PTSD course that

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like I never fcking tell my clients to like not watch trash before bed.

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Like if you are a highly anxious person,

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dissociating for a couple of hours, being wildly distracted, having that storytelling

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which is what we seek from films, like okay, that's very different to like a dopamine like

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hunting doom scroll.

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But that storytelling of a movie is very nourishing for the nervous system.

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You know, like my little one or he like literally wants a storey to go to sleep and

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once we've done books, he then, he then wants me to make up a storey and I'll be like, you

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know,

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once upon a time, blah blah.

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And he'll always fall asleep to it.

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And it is adorable.

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And I just think it's such a human thing to

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crave those storeys.

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So unless you have someone lying next to you

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that can like talk you to sleep, it is nice to like watch a movie.

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Like so anyway,

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what was I saying? I've went, I've gone off on one again.

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But what I'm trying to say is that like sedative herbs can be very helpful when there

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is like a disrupted pattern and someone isn't in a kind of like structured routine.

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So like that's when I think having that daily ritual of having an evening tea blend to help

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trigger that parasympathetic process and then maybe having a few drops of something before

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you sleep can be like a really, really beautiful ritual for someone because it's kind

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of like signal body,

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right? You need to rest now.

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And we're preparing for sleep and not from this kind of like point of fear, if that makes

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sense.

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And also, like, when someone's actually taken

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a herb like skullcap and can get a really amazing night's sleep,

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sleep starts feeling less terrifying.

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Like if you go to sleep and you wake up from a

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******* nightmare, you don't want to ******* go back to sleep.

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Do you know what I mean?

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It's scary.

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So it's like the more practise we get at

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having a kind of quality restorative night's sleep, the less frightening sleep becomes.

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And then we kind of go on like an upward spiral.

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Does that make sense? But anyway, I'm going to talk about this lots

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more in this episode.

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All about sedative herbs.

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Okay? So I'm nearly there with this like umbrella

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view.

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But I guess I also want to say, like, with any

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kind of one to one people that I'm meeting, like, I'm also like always screening for like

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red flags, right, like in terms of like,

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and I'll talk about this in the inflammation episode, but maybe someone's got a thyroid

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issue or some sort of metabolic issue that's affecting their sleep or they're going through

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like perimenopause, you know, like there might be, not that that's necessarily a pathological

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thing in any way, but there, there may be other things that we need to just like screen

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out and get like medically checked out with assessment.

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And the thing that is a sneaky culprit for people who have long, long, long term sleep

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issues is sleep apnea.

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So that's where you're kind of like your body's kind of like getting deprived of oxygen

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and then it's like waking up.

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And it can be really terrifying for people

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around someone who's got sleep apnea.

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But also it's a game, right, to get assessed.

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Like, you know, you have to go to the NHS

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sleep clinic, they want to measure your head, they want to put these machines on you.

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Like, if you're lucky, you'll get to the stage where they might like assess you in some sort

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of sleep centre.

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But then it's really hard to sleep because

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it's like really horrible.

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Anyway,

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when people have the sleep apnea machines, there's like a few different ones and they're

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changing all the time and Getting more comfortable.

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It can be seriously life changing for people because they've got enough oxygen, their

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airways are supported, like, and that can just change everything in terms of fatigue, energy,

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the next day, nightmares, like,

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like allergies, airway sensitivity, like so much stuff can stem back to that sleep.

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So yeah, like, I will often refer people for a sleep apnea assessment.

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If you got the ******* funds and can go private for that ******* rock and roll, like,

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it will be much faster.

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But if you have got the stamina to go via the nhs or not even stamina, like the ******* lack

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of financial choice.

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But yeah, having persistence with it can be really, really helpful because it can be just

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something very important to kind of like rule out.

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Okay,

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so I feel like I've just given my big picture.

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So just to kind of like recap that.

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I'm always asking why someone isn't sleeping

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well.

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I want to focus on their daytime changes, their daytime support.

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Before we get into all the kind of like sleep hygiene, blah, blah, like usual advice.

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Want to be really supporting someone's nervous system through the day, reducing those levels

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of cortisol, which is like our stress hormone that kind of naturally wakes us up.

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I want to be looking at deficiencies and digestive processes and other physiological

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drivers, especially where there's like potential inflammation that could be

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compromising someone's ability to sleep.

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And then I want to like skillfully work with sedative herbs so that they're appropriate so

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they have,

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we have an insight to someone's kind of like, I don't need like a list of someone's

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historical trauma, but I just need to screen that certain herbs are like potentially safe

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and are not going to do them harm.

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And that will work with them skillfully, you know, and not create a kind of dependency, but

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create a like, like new restored sleep pattern for someone.

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And also maybe have like a few like skilful sedatives that are kicking around in case you

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have a really bad night and you just need to get back to sleep and you just have a few

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drops of passion flower or skull cap tincture.

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Do you know what I mean? Like, we can work with these herbs like very

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intentionally,

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let alone like hardcore sedatives.

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You know, even things like lavender and

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lavender oil and chamomile are like absolutely dreamy to support people to sleep.

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So,

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okay, I'm gonna stop it there, but the next episode I'm gonna do, I'm gonna be talking in

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much more detail around this kind of like wired like daytime herbal support approach.

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And then the episode after that I'm going to be going into the nutritional deficiencies and

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then finally I'm going to be talking about inflammation and then we'll go heavy on the

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sedatives.

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But if you yeah if this episode has sparked your interest at all, please cheque out the

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herbalism, PTSD and traumatic stress course.

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I' a whole lesson in there about sleep.

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I've got suggestions on tracking your sleep and making observations so that you can get

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more quality sleep because it is just the number one most important thing in my opinion

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in terms of determining how someone feels, how much energy they've got, their nervous system

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state through the daytime, whether they can even recover from trauma because that's when

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our body is like processing all of our life experiences etc.

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Etc.

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And yeah, yeah I think it's really, really important.

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So thank you for listening.

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Take care.

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Thanks so much for listening to the Frontline Herbalism podcast.

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You can find the transcript, the links, all the resources from the

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show@solidarityapothecary.org podcast.